How to Stop Living on Overdrive: Recognising When You're Running on Auto-Pilot
You wake up exhausted but push through the day. You’re constantly doing, reacting, anticipating—without ever feeling truly present. Life feels like a never-ending cycle of responsibilities, expectations, and pressure, and you can’t pinpoint exactly why you feel so drained.
This is living on overdrive, and for many, it feels normal—until burnout forces them to stop. This was me. After years of going, doing, and wanting to be everything for everyone, I crashed. I couldn’t do it anymore. I had to make some serious changes.
But you don’t have to wait for exhaustion to take over before making a change. The key to breaking free starts with recognising the patterns, beliefs, and subconscious wiring that keep you stuck.
How Your Nervous System Keeps You Stuck in Overdrive
Your nervous system is designed to keep you safe. When faced with stress, overwhelm, or uncertainty, your body instinctively shifts into survival mode—triggering fight, flight, or freeze responses. There’s also another response called fawn, which you might relate to… it’s otherwise known as people pleasing.
For some, overdrive becomes a way of life, meaning:
✅ You stay busy to avoid discomfort, ignoring signs that you need rest.
✅ You struggle to slow down, feeling uneasy when there’s nothing to "do."
✅ You anticipate problems before they happen, trying to control every outcome.
✅ You feel disconnected from yourself, prioritising others while neglecting your own needs.
This constant hypervigilance keeps your nervous system on edge, making peace, joy, and ease feel out of reach. The good news? You can retrain your nervous system to find balance.
The Role of Subconscious Beliefs in Your Exhaustion
The biggest wake up call I ever had was realising that our deeply ingrained beliefs are running the show—shaping our behaviours, emotions, and daily choices. These beliefs, often formed in childhood, dictate how we approach work, relationships, and even self-worth.
Some common subconscious beliefs that fuel living on overdrive include:
❌ “I have to keep going or everything will fall apart.”
❌ “Rest is lazy—there’s always more to do.”
❌ “If I say no, people will be disappointed in me.”
❌ “I need to control everything to feel safe.”
These beliefs keep you stuck in cycles of stress, people-pleasing, and self-neglect. But once you recognise them, you can begin to rewrite the narrative and reclaim your energy.
Breaking Free: How to Reset & Rewire Your Habits
If you’re ready to stop living on overdrive and start feeling present, calm, and in control, here’s where to begin:
1. Regulate Your Nervous System
Start with deep breathing, grounding exercises, or mindfulness to calm stress responses.
Notice when you’re rushing, overcommitting, or avoiding rest—then pause instead of pushing through.
Create space for slow moments, even if they feel uncomfortable at first.
2. Rewire Subconscious Patterns
Challenge the belief that rest = laziness—start seeing it as a necessity, not a luxury.
Replace people-pleasing with self-trust, knowing you are worthy without overextending yourself.
Shift from controlling everything to embracing uncertainty and trusting yourself to handle challenges.
3. Reset Your Daily Habits
Start small, intentional changes—set boundaries, say no, and prioritise time for yourself.
Create daily rituals that support presence, such as journaling, slow mornings, or intentional movement.
Track your emotions and energy levels, noticing patterns in when you feel overwhelmed or calm.
Final Thoughts
Living in survival mode isn’t sustainable—and you don’t have to wait until burnout forces you to make a change. Recognising the subconscious beliefs, nervous system responses, and daily habits keeping you stuck in overdrive is the first step toward a life that feels lighter, calmer, and more aligned.
Ready to step out of autopilot and reclaim your energy? The journey starts with awareness—and the choice to do things differently.
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